Hold the Line!

Several years ago a small midwestern town had a choice.

The story goes…’outsiders’ came to town with the intent to deface and destroy the town, the buildings, the landscape, the community, and drive the good people out.

They began by spraying ugly graffiti messages on one building wall. Then they defaced another wall. The town people had to make a decision. Were they going to allow this to continue until the whole town was sprayed and then overtaken by non-caring individuals whose intent was the destruction of the community? (We’re not talking about interesting landscape designs or abstract paintings; we’re talking about the other kind of graffiti….applied from a heart of anger and malice.)

The town decided not to say anything to anybody, but just paint over the ugly graffiti.

The following night the graffiti artists returned and marked up the walls.

Next day town-folk got their paint rollers out and painted over the graffiti.

Again the graffiti came back. The town-folk rolled up the walls again!

It was a bit of paint warfare, but eventually the angry graffiti artists packed up and left town.

This is a prime example of overcoming bad with good….they didn’t even have to say a word! They used their paint and covered it up over and over until it no longer was there.

Let’s think what we can do in our community, neighborhood, state, country to silently snuff out the destruction and replace it with something better.

“It’s not my responsibility… that’s why I pay taxes, someone else has to do it!”

That’s exactly why we need to do it! We pay taxes and it’s us taxpayers property! It’s our ‘ranch’! Why let our property look trashy? Cut down the thistles, pick up the trash and the sticks, organize a dumpster drive and get rid of old tires and appliances. There’s work to be done! Let’s clean up our areas, have a bit of pride and satisfaction of a good deed done together 🙂

I have my trashbag in hand! Let’s go!

What Do You See?

It’s a matter of training; training ourselves what to look at… a matter of focus.

We don’t aim our cameras for any old shot to take, we take good aim and focus on what we want shown in that picture …that will no doubt be shared with others.

What we focus our thoughts and lives on is what we will share with others in our words or through our actions.

Focus on ugly often leads to doing ugly.

Focus on good often leads to doing good.

An artist focuses on what he wants to paint or draw and that’s what he produces. Even in a ‘non-artistic’ mode what we focus on is what we draw out of our lives.

What are you focusing your lens on?

What are you painting on your life canvas that will be shared with others?

Give them a good picture.

Give them something worthwhile to remember.

Give them something to inspire them to paint a better picture.

The Driving Game

Driving has become a contest…us …against other drivers.  It’s an ugly contest.

We’re driving to town and enter the 4-lane area and immediately have to get around the person in front, speeding up and cutting them off, so they understand the imposition they have been by their thoughtless slow driving (probably they were doing the speed limit).

We are approaching an exit or lane merge and pull into that lane and then forbid anyone else from ‘cutting’ in front of us. ‘Don’t even think about it, I was here first; you’re on your own buddy! I had to wait my turn and I’m going to make sure you wait yours.’

The light is yellow, on the verge of red and we speed up to make the turn, or just flat out run the red light…who cares? ‘I waited long enough; I deserve to get through this light even if you have to wait.’

‘How dare you pull out in front of me (even though I was a quarter of a mile back and you had plenty of time)…just for that I’m going to ride on your tail and stay there to teach you a lesson!’

This is horrible! Yet we encounter these drivers each day. Some of them are us, and some of them are the others.

Accidents, pile-ups, and debris all along the way, because somebody wasn’t thinking.

What if we looked at the whole network of drivers and cars on the roads a different way? What if we all saw ourselves as members of a team with the goal to help each one get to where they’re going?

Currently  it’s high football tide and every person on the team is pulling together with a single directive of helping each player do their best, shielding them when necessary, clearing the way, letting them through.

What if we stopped seeing other drivers as a potential threat to our maneuverability?

What if…we saw other drivers as people going to work (yes, some  should have left a few minutes earlier)… saw them as a fellow parent trying to take the kids to school or the daycare… saw them as a concerned relative rushing to the hospital… saw them as someone who just left after a family fued.

What if we saw them as ‘us’ and decided to help them get to their destination.

So we… decide to let them go in front of us…decide to pull back so they can make the turn… decide to smile and give them some distance…. decide to do everything we can as a good courteous driver so they can reach their destination safely.

What if we ‘befriended’ fellow drivers causing them to befriend their fellow drivers- continually paying it forward until instead of a 50 car pile-up, we have an avalanche of goodwill on display in our roadways.

What if…?

Could it start with me?