Hold the Line!

Several years ago a small midwestern town had a choice.

The story goes…’outsiders’ came to town with the intent to deface and destroy the town, the buildings, the landscape, the community, and drive the good people out.

They began by spraying ugly graffiti messages on one building wall. Then they defaced another wall. The town people had to make a decision. Were they going to allow this to continue until the whole town was sprayed and then overtaken by non-caring individuals whose intent was the destruction of the community? (We’re not talking about interesting landscape designs or abstract paintings; we’re talking about the other kind of graffiti….applied from a heart of anger and malice.)

The town decided not to say anything to anybody, but just paint over the ugly graffiti.

The following night the graffiti artists returned and marked up the walls.

Next day town-folk got their paint rollers out and painted over the graffiti.

Again the graffiti came back. The town-folk rolled up the walls again!

It was a bit of paint warfare, but eventually the angry graffiti artists packed up and left town.

This is a prime example of overcoming bad with good….they didn’t even have to say a word! They used their paint and covered it up over and over until it no longer was there.

Let’s think what we can do in our community, neighborhood, state, country to silently snuff out the destruction and replace it with something better.

“It’s not my responsibility… that’s why I pay taxes, someone else has to do it!”

That’s exactly why we need to do it! We pay taxes and it’s us taxpayers property! It’s our ‘ranch’! Why let our property look trashy? Cut down the thistles, pick up the trash and the sticks, organize a dumpster drive and get rid of old tires and appliances. There’s work to be done! Let’s clean up our areas, have a bit of pride and satisfaction of a good deed done together 🙂

I have my trashbag in hand! Let’s go!

It’s a Contest!

Who will you let win?

We really can control the outcome!

We don’t have to allow another’s bad choice to to cause us to make bad choices.

We are only responsible for ours. Let them be responsible for theirs.

They hate, we maintain love.

They control, we keep our peace.

They yell, we keep a calm voice.

They destroy, we build up.

They pull back, we lean in.

They accuse, we bless.

They speak lies, we speak truth.

They divide, we multiply.

… and really, these voices are not just those of others; we hear them shouting in our own heads. Are we going to let them in….let them win?

Steer yourself the direction you want to go.

Stay on the path.

I Love My Life

First of all, I’ve been through a lot of deep and dark valleys, but there have always been sunny skies and mountain tops on the horizon.

We’ve just got to look!

One deep dark valley was so awful, the kids were all little and I was faced with a choice…either fall down in the mire of self- pity or look for ways to help others. It was my decision.

A good friend came over to visit. I fixed all of us a nice lunch (meatball stew, leafy salad with capers, and fruit salad with orange sauce). I wanted to make it really fun for her, they didn’t have a lot back then. We had a nice time together, she and I, while watching our kids play. As they were packing up to go she said she came over intending to encourage me, but she was encouraged instead.

That made my day too!

There will always be something bright to focus on instead of troubles. Doing something good is one of the best ways.

Rearrange your closet, organize the kitchen junk drawer, vacuum out your car, wash all your mirrors, sweep the sidewalk, pick a few grasses and flowers for a bouquet. Pour some coffee and sit near your window to watch the birds. Plan a new craft project.

I love that about life! No matter how gloomy or glum things seem, I am free to think of — and will find something to do that lifts my spirits.

A merry heart does good like medicine, God said.

It really is that simple.

What do you choose to think about today?

Love your life!!!