Start with one plant.
Learn about it, nurture it, watch it grow, maybe it flounders.
Don’t give up or think you failed.
Get another plant and begin again.
It’s the process of life–learning how to care for things–how to care for yourself.
You might discover the plant grows better in a different window with more or less light. It might do better with watering only once a week and not every other day. Maybe it would be better grouped with another plant to share humidity.
The same with you–learn about yourself, observe yourself. What do you like. Where do you feel you do best. What time of day do you have your best thoughts, do your best work? What colors make you feel great when you wear them? What patterns or styles are you drawn to? What type books, movies, videos make you feel best about yourself? What type of work do you like doing best?
Thinking about and answering questions like these are indicators of how you are made, gifted, function and work best.
Truly one size does not fit all.
Find you, be you, do you.
Be comfortable with you.
Mrs. Goodfinder 